Sunday, January 01, 2012

Let The New Year Begin!

I love new beginnings. When the year starts over it feels like forgiveness and redemption. I don't know why I tend to look for these external events to give myself permission to start over, to refresh and to wipe the slate clean -- but I do. Apparently I have not yet grasped the power God has given me to begin anew at any moment. But, alas, here we all are at a new beginning. Hallelujah!

It is my prayer for 2012:
  • That I and We can forgive ourselves and others -- and can accept forgiveness from others.
  • That I and We can find passion in our relationships with others.
  • That I and We can plot goodness where ever we find ourselves.
  • That I and We can grow in ways that both deepen and broaden us.
  • That I and We can find true community in which all of the above can happen with authentic and inspirational encouragement.
One of my favorite music groups, Raining Jane, says it this way: Let the New YEAR Begin.

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Friday, December 30, 2011

An important and respectful dialog

A week or so ago I read a New York Times article that prompted me to post a question on my Facebook page. The question (see below) sparked a considerable back and forth dialog with 3 friends of mine. Though we didn't come to agreement on the issues we discussed, I thought the respectful dialog about important issues of our day was refreshing.

I repost the dialog here in its unedited form in order to preserve it and to allow others to see how people can be in disagreement, while at the same time respectful and authentically desiring that the way of Jesus be evident in us and around us.

Feel free to add your own respectful comments here.

Have we mixed religion and politics so completely and inexplicably that now few people feel safe affiliating with either one?
· · December 23 at 2:55pm
    • Daryl Erickson You got it.,, Craig ,,,mixed up since the tower of babel,,,,all different govt. forms ,, ARE ministers for Gods many uses,,,,, to reward or to punish ...and as for religions, , well what,, can say,,?????? I am glad for all who want to,, and try to be good to their fellowman. The Truth is available ,,,, that's good!!!!! As far as feeling safe,,,,,with being associated with them,,,I can understand being cautious,,and reluctant........later,,, d
      December 23 at 3:21pm ·
    • Glenn Thompson In religion I affilliate with a person and politics with principles and I always feel safe.
      December 23 at 8:18pm ·
    • Craig A. Steffen The words and way of Jesus were always in stark contrast to the greed and power of the political machine. As it turns out, it wasn't safe for Him. The way of Jesus is utterly incompatible with the love of money and the desire for power that is politics. Yet most of our churches seem perfectly comfortable mixing the two, rendering both of them unrecognizable. And it's probably not safe for me to point that out here.
      December 24 at 10:16am ·
    • Glenn Thompson Governments are established by God. Politics are part of governments. Why then would God not be interested in politics correctly exercised according to His will?
      December 24 at 10:25am ·
    • Glenn Thompson Safety is way overrated. But your safe with me.
      December 24 at 10:26am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen Thanks for making it safe. Theoretically I agree, but I've never seen or heard of a government that "is exercised according to the will of God" or the way of Jesus. Have you?
      December 24 at 10:45pm ·
    • Glenn Thompson No. Nor have I seen an individual "exercised according to the will of God", perfectly. Just because we and our governments are flawed doesn't mean God isn't interested in us or them.
      December 25 at 9:15am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen I agree. I'm very engaged in both trying to walk in the way of Jesus and in trying to influence government to at least move a little bit more in that direction. What I'm concerned about here is the huge number of people who have given up on organized religion because it has become indistinguishable from capitalism, democracy, or party politics. The way of Jesus calls us to be self-sacrificing in a radical way that none of these do. Tho our politics likely differ, I'll bet you agree that following Jesus trumps following political party or economic systems or national identity etc.
      December 25 at 10:07am ·
    • Glenn Thompson The way of Jesus does certainly trump everything. But some forms of government, political parties ,economic systems etc., are more compatible with the way of Jesus than others. For instance I doubt Jesus is pleased with governance that outlaws His worship or acknowledgement of His existence. Or the exercise of a person's individual conscience in matters of morality and giving.
      December 26 at 9:16am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen Yes I think you're right. And that's why we must be salt and light to influence change so that the people Jesus stood up for, the poor, the powerless, the sick, the foreigner, the stranger, the widow, the orphan and anyone who was "other" are not forgotten or exploited by the people Jesus actively opposed, the proud, the rich, the powerful, the religious hypocrites etc. It seems to me that too many religious people of our time are on exactly the opposite side of these issues than where Jesus was. And many fight tenaciously for their opposite position using the name of Jesus in exactly the same way as the Pharisees of Jesus' day. And that is what drives so many people away from seeking relationship with God (and sincere involvement in government).
      December 26 at 9:54am · · 1
    • Glenn Thompson Self-sacrificial living comes from a person's relationship with God not from a mandate of government to give one's property and labor to those the government mandates are deserving of one's property. Sincere involvement in government can assure a free people remain free to aid the orphan, the stranger, the oppressed and not be slaves to the government who would distribute charity to those the government believes will continue to vote them or their party into office to continue the forced confiscation and distribution from one group to another. Sincere involvement in government does not in itself preclude a relationship with the Almighty but when properly exercised enhance and fulfill it.
      December 26 at 10:27am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen So we both have agreed that the role of followers of Jesus as it concerns government, is to influence that government to act more in alliance with the way of Jesus. But when government tries to feed the poor or provide medical services for the sick etc (things Jesus himself both modeled and taught specifically) we resist. Why? Perhaps for the same reason as the rich young ruler who came to Jesus? When he knew it would cost him and that in giving he'd lose control of how the money would be spent, he walked away. Nationally Christians give less than 2% of their income to charity. Wealthy Christians give even less. It seems to me that this reaction reveals that we're more beholden to the god of personal financial "freedom" (a concept never talked about by Jesus) than we are in having a heart that is concerned about the people Jesus came to minister to. The argument most Christians make is Focused far more on keeping their money (never a value of Jesus) and almost never on compassion for those in real need. Why have so many of us (I include myself) been SO desperate that government value life like Jesus and so opposed to government valuing the poor, sick, homeless, foreigner etc. Like Jesus? Could it be that the first does not require us to act or pay, while the second requires both perpetually? I think these are questions I and other Jesus followers must ponder seriously as the poor get poorer and more numerous among us. What would Jesus say and do if he had incarnated in our time and place? Would he be more concerned about our freedom and prosperity or more concerned about people struggling with exploitation, poverty, illness and hate?
      December 26 at 3:31pm · · 1
    • Glenn Thompson Wow! You better reread my post if you think I propose government as a charitable entity. A republic such as ours does not work as charity because it inevitably becomes a vote buying scheme. Those who receive the benefits will vote in pols or parties that promise the forced taking under penalty of fine or imprisonment more and more of other citizens monies for their own enrichment until the inevitable insolvency of the state occurs. See the socialst governments of Europe as current examples. A government whose power derives from being voted into power will never exercise the biblical precept of "if a man will not work then neither let him eat" for fear of losing the votes of those receiving said benefits. I never heard of Jesus advocating government taking over an individual's responsiblity to take care of the widows and orphans. By doing so we lose the sacrificial giving of our time and monies by the promptings of our own conscience guided by God's spirit and replace it with the law of complusion which is hardly a prescription for spiritual growth. No, give me a government that allows me to be free to exercise the giving according to my own conscience and my relationship with the Almighty.
      December 26 at 7:51pm ·
    • Craig A. Steffen I'm not a fan of this medium for this kind of discussion as these concepts are so complex, multifarious and nuanced. I'm sure you feel I'm missing your points and I know I feel your missing mine. You didn't address any of the questions I posed in my last post. I don't think government is the most efficient means to assist the people struggling with poverty, crushing costs of illness or homelessness either. But these are the heart of Jesus, so why do Christians get so worked up when government tries to act as an agent to alleviate their suffering? Isn't this what it means to strive to be "like Jesus?". And wouldn't we prefer that government alleviate suffering rather than be the cause of it? And though I wish that the solution to this kind of suffering were being dealt with by people exercising their individual freedom and responsibility, the reality is that the problem is orders of magnitude larger than the small number of giving people can possibly solve. Perhaps if Christians had been faithful to the teachings of Jesus all along, regarding compassion for others, the problem could have been kept small and manageable -- but poverty and all it's tentacles engulfs more than half of the globe's population -- and is growing rapidly. Even if you gave your millions and I gave my hundreds, it would be a mere drop in the desert of need. I contend that the problem of poverty on the one hand and selfishness on the other has created a pandemic of need that only massive orgs like governments can begin to tackle. And just as we would be happy if government affirmed the right to life because we see that as an outcome of the teachings of Jesus; shouldn't we be happy if the government also attempts to alleviate the suffering of the poor and sick since that too is the way of Jesus? (and, btw, the verse you quote is an instruction to a specific local church dealing with a fellow follower of Jesus who won't follow the way of Jesus to work and help others. It is not an instruction to the poor or to the church about dealing with poverty outside of the church family. Context is important.). We may come to different positions on these difficult issues my friend, but I'm hoping you'll at least take a fresh look at the actions of Jesus before writing me off. I spent 45 years swallowing the American version of Jesus. But in the past several years I've given myself permission to re-read the gospels without my American lenses and have found a Very different Jesus than the one I was given and the one I preached for so long.
      December 26 at 9:26pm · · 1
    • Shawn Irvin ‎"For instance I doubt Jesus is pleased with governance that outlaws His worship or acknowledgement of His existence..or the exercise of a person's individual conscience in matters of morality and giving."

      You're absolutely right about those kinds of governments Glenn, but I think He is no more pleased with (so called) democratic governments and (so called) free market systems that, given their abundance of resources, wealth and influence (all from Him), advocate and allow the Earth to be plundered and inequity within and outside of their borders to be systematically created and then ignored for the good of their own power.

      To me, with greater abundance and power comes greater responsibility and higher expectations, and the (so called) democracies and (so called) free market systems in this world are delusional if they think that Jesus is anything close to pleased with their self-serving policies and narcissistic posturing in this world.
      December 26 at 10:27pm ·
    • Daryl Erickson Good profitable discussion,, I'd thank you both glen and Craig,,, for bringing these current issues to the table !!!!!! The way of our. Lord Jesus,, has traveled through many centuries of difficult relationships with believers and their ruling powers.....I wish that I could solve our dilema,, with a few superlative statements,,,, and cause us to say yes,,,,, Daryl has the right answers for this!!!!! But we know that, that's not going to happen,,,, but maybe we can,, with Paul,,, rejoice that Christ is preached!!!!::,,,,,,,, and if the next step is world, global democracy/socialism,,, let us remember that with freedom comes responsibilty,,, to actually love our neighbors as ourselves,,,, a feat that I am sorefully lacking.....on the otherhand if radical Islam should take the helm ,,,in say. 25-50 years,,,, we won't have to debate this issue,, will we....Like I said I see the coin and the two sides,,,, my conclusion is this....the book of acts presents abandoned communal. Lifestyle,,, chances are that none of us 3 are really ready to do that,,,, so ,,,,,,we are left with the ,,,only alternative,,,, to engage the world and It's systems in the best way that we feel we can....thanks again for causing me to stretch my thinking,,,,Lord knows it needs it,,,love in Him,,, d
      December 26 at 10:45pm ·
    • Craig A. Steffen Thanks for contributing your perspectives Shawn and Daryl. It is a complex issue and the point I hope to make, at the end of the day, is that NO political system and NO political party is walking in the way of Jesus. (each does only to a degree -- it is not black and white) And if that is true, then NO follower of Jesus should be strongly aligned with any one of them. Influence them, yes. Participate vigorously in the process, yes. But when we begin to say that our identity comes from them by saying "I am a Republican" or "I am a Democrat" or "I am a Libertarian" (or fill in the blank) then I think we've mixed our commitment to Jesus with our commitment to some man-made system in an extremely unhealthy and unholy manner. And, regarding our religious affiliations, the same thing holds true. If we say our identity is Baptist or Brethren or Catholic or Methodist, (or fill in the blank) we have aligned our identity with some man-made distinction that dilutes our commitment to following Jesus, because no religious system walks completely in the way of Jesus either. Participate with them, yes. Try to influence them, yes. And, as Glenn points out well, use our relationship with Jesus as a means to RADICALLY love God and love our neighbor unconditionally with all the talents and resources (including our money) that are at our disposal. It is that kind of "salt" and "light" that will (slowly) change this world so that "the kingdom of God and the will of God will come to Earth as it is in Heaven" (as Jesus taught us to pray). Let us ALL go forth and do good in the way of Jesus today -- in some radical and unexpected way. :-) Thank you for the respectful dialog and for your friendships. I love each of you!
      Tuesday at 8:57am · · 1
    • Daryl Erickson Well said,,,,,I agree wholeheartedly!!!!! It can be so easy to bad-mouth, anyone,,especially political figures and ideals,, as well as religious,, thanks again for all the insights ,,,,,keep the faith,,,, later,,d
      Tuesday at 1:56pm ·
    • Glenn Thompson Yes. A good airing without rancor. Although I know neither Daryl or Shawn I celebrate your measured and loving responses. To risk being the last word freak here I would like to respond to a little of Craig's last post. People I know and myself included get "worked up" because they see programs of the Federal government that simply don't work and most often compound the problem they purport to be designed to solve. But most often it doesn't seem to matter and only that (1) Our intentions were noble or (2) we need to throw more money at it the next time. Meanwhile the treasury of our country slips steadily toward bankrupcy and America which though not perfectly but to my thinking mostly a blessing to all nations is quickly and inexirably marching to a state of tyranny with the mind of the collective being being our new master.
      Tuesday at 4:29pm ·
    • Daryl Erickson Good points,, Glenn,,, by the way ,, r u ,,Joy's husband? If so, I've met you at cbbc,, enjoyed the conversations,,,,, d
      Tuesday at 6:45pm ·
    • Glenn Thompson No, Daryl, my wife is Sherry and I reside in Ky. If you know another Glenn Thompson I sure hope he behaves himself!
      Tuesday at 7:05pm ·
    • Daryl Erickson Lol,,,He's good fella,,,, 2 more pieces to our believers/political involvement discussion. 1--- the reality of differing " spiritual gifts" in the church,,,,,this helps us to distinguish, why, some are more active, and some are,more in the supportive type .roles.. ##2,,,And I don't wish to open a can of worms, or change the topic,,,but ,I want us to consider how it effects our activity in participating/ or not participating so much,,, in social change activism.....and this is our view, or views on "eschatology".. by this, I'm suggesting that we primarily fall into 2 camps,,,,1- pessimistic. Or 2- optimistic...,,as to the betterment of mankind,, versus the worsening of mankind,, in terms of social/political state of things,,, when the King of kings sets up His kingdom....Our attitudes do effect our activities quite a bit... So if the subject should continue,,,please take the last shout on this,, you too Absent,, should you desire,,,,d
      Tuesday at 9:24pm ·
    • Daryl Erickson Shawn,,,,,not absent,,,,these smart phones are far faster than I,,,, in chosing words!!!!! Absent?????? Come on!!
      Tuesday at 9:26pm ·
    • Glenn Thompson Thanks, Daryl. I'm optimistic that limited federal government will most effectively contain my pessimistic attitude of man's mischief in handling the reins of absolute power. Till the King returns and then I'll certainly cede the power the Him.
      Wednesday at 7:54am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen It seems to me that we agree on a lot of this -- but perhaps our percentage of focus on the two halves of the problem are not the same. Here's how I'd state the two sided problem:
      Wednesday at 9:39am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen Government is an extremely inefficient delivery system for alleviating the extreme suffering of people struggling with the oppression of poverty. IMO, Republicans tend to focus on the first half of the statement (cost) while utterly ignoring the second. While Democrats tend to focus on the second half of the statement (alleviating suffering) while ignoring the first. Neither of these perspectives solves BOTH halves of the problem. Hence the practice of continuing to pluck the one string on either the Republican or Democratic banjo isn't helpful. And vilifying either side with comments about them being "evil" or "stupid" (as the bloviating heads on talk radio and tv tend to do) or whatever isn't true or helpful either. What we need is a complete solution -- which I don't hear either side proposing.
      Wednesday at 9:46am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen Sometimes a terribly inefficient delivery system is acceptable if it solves a short-term problem. When I walk into the ICU to visit a friend who has been intubated and breathing with the help of a respirator, I don't focus on the overhead rate of the hospital, the salary of the doctor or the cost of the respirator. It is horribly inefficient compared to the ideal of people using their diaphragm to draw free air from the ambient surroundings through their nasal passages and into their lungs. The cost comparison isn't even in the same galaxy. Yet we accept the terribly inefficient delivery system because of the gravity of the problem being addressed as a result of the failure of the natural system to perform as designed. I suggest that the natural system that Jesus proposed for dealing with poverty and suffering of "the least of these" has been almost completely abandoned by most of the people who name the name of Jesus. Most affluent christians have no relationship with anyone living in poverty. And as pointed out earlier christians as a whole give less than 2% of their income. The richer the christian is, the smaller amount they give to any kind of charitable cause. Because of the failure of the natural intended system, more than 3 billion people around the globe are suffering and dying. More than 4000 children die every day from completely preventable simple diseases like diarrhea. Because of the magnitude of the problem and the unacceptable consequences if left untreated, perhaps the only option is to use a terribly inefficient delivery system to deal with the human suffering?
      Wednesday at 10:09am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen And, Daryl -- I agree that one's eschatology hugely influences one's perspective on these issues. But, you'll forgive me if we don't open THAT topic on a difficult medium like Facebook. :-) We might not ever get any work done ever again! :-)
      Wednesday at 10:21am ·
    • Craig A. Steffen Now look who's become the "last word freak?" :-) It's ME! Sorry men!
      Wednesday at 10:23am ·
    • Glenn Thompson You hold the title, Craig........ shoot now its ME! Someone,please chime in and relieve me of the stigma!
      Wednesday at 10:34am ·
    • Daryl Erickson O.k. last thoughts from me,,, because of the global economy being based on the IMF,WTO,world bank,,UN agreements,EQ5---the printing up money in the billions,,etc,,,"" all the rules have changed""and were not in Kansas anymore,,toto,,,,I feel that the voting processes,,actual policy making,,and individuals thinking that they are really influencing any major changes,,are sorely being munipulated,,our republic is no longer functioning,,... I've finally seen the light,,, republicans, talk the talk, but never through,,,we will not see any positive changes under either party .The global economic web has us all in subjection to interdependence,,the best bet is to learn to provide,protect,and plan for our own needs.. local community involvement may have an impact,,, but nationalism, is only a facade at best..The good ol USA is a thing of the past,,,we are really followers, not leaders, as is portrayed,,,in this new world of ours. 2012 is going to be interesting indeed!!!!!so do you really think republicans canmake a significant change???
      Wednesday at 12:58pm ·
    • Craig A. Steffen There's an interesting sounding book I just bought called "Republic, Lost" by Lawrence Lessig. I'll be reading it over the next few weeks. Perhaps we could all get it and read it and compare notes on Skype or something? What say ye all?
      Wednesday at 1:08pm ·
    • Glenn Thompson Ok
      Wednesday at 1:39pm ·
    • Glenn Thompson Daryl - I have no faith in the Republican party. I do in principled men and women who believe in limited government and are constitutionalist. It will be a long haul but worth it. I can see backing the currency with gold and ending the associations with WTO, IMF and kicking the UN to the curb as all real positives.
      Wednesday at 1:58pm · · 1

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Monday, August 01, 2011

An inspirational poem I ran across recently. It exists in many forms, was attributed to Mother Teresa, but was probably actually written by someone named Kent Keith:
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People are often unreasonable, illogical and self centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and your God;
It was never between you and them anyway.

Friday, January 22, 2010

Today's Supreme Court Decision

I am saddened that many of my conservative friends, who have long (and rightly) spoken out about the constitutional dangers of judicial activism are champions of the travesty of the Supreme Court's decision today. In a 5-4 decision, the Court has granted corporations a right that the first amendment clearly provided only as a "right of the people" for the past 220 years. By doing so, corporations now have a double measure of free speech. Each and every citizen within the corporation has the original right of free speech, and now the corporation has a second "right" never heretofore granted. Money, not people will now have even greater control of the USA political process.

By creating these artificial collective voices with the stroke of a pen, the High Court has allowed these self-serving behemoths the right to shout so loudly that the singular voices of the People will now be undetectable amongst them. And, by kowtowing to these super voices, it is no longer true that all People are created EQUAL. Those with money are clearly "more equal than others."

I believe that history will show this to be a sad day for our Republic.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Blessed Are The Peacemakers ...

Jesus undercut the basis for all violent, exclusionary and punitive behavior. He became the forgiving victim, so we would stop creating victims ourselves. He became the falsely accused one, so we would be careful whom we accuse.

Any worldly system actually prefers violent partners to nonviolent ones; it gives them a clear target and a credible enemy. Empires are actually relieved to have terrorists to shoot at and Barabbas figures loose on the streets. Types like Jesus, make difficult enemies for empires. They cannot be used or co-opted.

The powers that be know that nonviolent prophets are a much deeper problem because they refuse to buy into the very illusions that the whole empire is built on, especially the myth of redemptive violence. Like Jesus, they live instead a life of redemptive suffering.

Taken from Things Hidden: Scripture as Spirituality, p 152 by Richard Rohr

Monday, October 05, 2009

How Would Western Faith Communities be Different IF...

We valued character traits like:
  • Love
  • Joy
  • Peace
  • Patience
  • Gentleness
  • Goodness
  • Humility
  • Self-control
  • Faith

And actions like:
  • Justice
  • Caring for the poor
  • Living simply
  • Giving
  • Peace-making
  • Esteeming others better than ourselves
  • Looking out for the interests of others
  • Tending to the Creation
  • Gratitude
More than we value being:

  • Right
  • Secure
  • Rich
  • Even
  • Safe
  • Separatist
  • Comfortable
  • Consumptive
  • Right

A Timely Quote from CS Lewis

He whom I bow to only knows to whom I bow
When I attempt the ineffable Name, murmuring Thou,
And dream of Pheidian fancies and embrace in heart
Symbols (I know) which cannot be the thing thou art.
Thus always, taken at their word, all prayers blaspheme
Worshiping with frail images a folk-lore dream,
And all men in their praying, self-deceived, address
The coinage of their own unquiet thoughts, unless
Thou in magnetic mercy to thyself divert
Our arrows aimed unskillfully, beyond desert;
And all men are idolaters, crying unheard
To a deaf idol, if thou take them at their word. Take not, O Lord, our literal sense. Lord, in thy great,
Unbroken speech our limping metaphor translate.

Friday, September 11, 2009

Appropriate Humility for September 11

I saw this devotional today and thought it appropriate given the dubious anniversary of today's date. Eight years have passed. In some ways it seems like only yesterday we were glued to our TV sets watching the horror. In other ways, it seems like something that didn't take place in my lifetime.

In remembering this day, I hope we can eventually find ways to have healing and to move toward the Kingdom Jesus is ushering in, rather than simply remembering the massive loss of life and the evil that perpetrated it.

In my own simple way and in my own context I want to be an instrument of peace and healing as Jesus visualized for us in Matt 5. Will you join me?

As long as we think that we alone have to save the world, we become arrogant in our methods, impatient in our attitudes and quick in our solutions. Instead, we must seek the patience and peaceof God. The man and woman of God are content to let God work through their lives for some little bit of unity. Wherever you are, let God create a little bit of unity and communion today. I believe that's what God 's doing on earth. I know one religious sister who sees her primary call as bestowing "benevolent smiles" on everybody she meets. Whata threat she must be to disunity!

If Jesus is to be risen among us, we must each individually and collectively surrender to a love and mystery that is greater than our hearts. We must humbly admit that we really don't know much at all. We have few perfectly right answers it seems to me, and even fewer conclusions that are always true. All we can be is what Jesus was: present and enfleshed. In the end it seems to me there's only one gospel: Jesus incarnate, Jesus crucified, Jesus resurrected. Solidarity in suffering and in ecstasy is God's gift to the world. To be in the Church is to be willing to be part of that cosmic rhythm and cooperate with God to create little bits of unity wherever we can.

(Richard Rohr, Adapted from The Spiritual Family and the Natural Family - out of print)

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Life, all Life, is Precious

I am reminded of this truth today because another life has been removed from my little world -- The Dude, was a cat in our care for the past 7 years. He came to us as a rescue of sorts. He had been rescued from slinking around the streets of Dayton, Ohio by our cat-loving friend. We rescued our friend.

She had named him Goodness. A true misnomer, as it turned out. Goodness took to shredding the curtains and the unsuspecting legs of our friend -- while she slept. After weeks of trying to convert the outdoors-cat into a lap-cat, our friend was exasperated. And we rescued her from the beast she had begun to refer to as Beelzebub (Beezer for short).

On our couple of acres, this terror of kittydom became quite the gentlemen, hence his new moniker, The Dude. He was the perfect blend of coolness and man-about-town. He could take care of himself, but he preferred our help -- at times he would select.

When he stopped eating after our houseful of guests departed following Thanksgiving, we knew something wasn't right. This is a cat that never met a meal he didn't like. We initially thought he had a hairball or some other common kitty malady, but after a few days we thought differently and took him off to the vet. Hepatic Lipidosis was the diagnosis.

He fought the good fight -- so did we. He didn't take kindly to the fuss and the forced feeding required to try to reverse his illness. We told the vet assistant that he was lucky that The Dude wasn't feeling well -- otherwise The Dude would have disemboweled the poor fellow for placing that thermometer.

After nearly a month of treatment, The coolest and most handsome cat I know gave up the fight.

The funny thing is, heretofore I have never been a cat-person. Much preferring the boundless energy and companionship of a German Shepherd. This fact makes my genuine affection for The Dude truly remarkable. The Dude amused me.

And when any creature dies, there is a loss felt within the human soul. If ever we were to lose that stab of loss, I believe we would cease to be the enlightened species we claim to be. So I shed my tears and thank the Creator of us all for the lessons taught to me by my buddy The Dude.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

The Tale of Two Policies

Your best source for growth and stability is your existing customers. Never forget that, or you’ll be taking your first step toward being obsolete in your market.

In my consulting work I continue to see companies who establish “policy” that either takes for granted existing customers, or effectively treats them as second-class. Why else would a company exempt existing customers from taking advantage of new promotional deals? Why do some companies spend thousands of dollars to acquire a new customer, but will not take a proactive step to retain an existing patron?

ALL the research indicates that it is far more expensive to find and acquire a new customer than to keep and grow an existing one. Depending on your business, the cost difference could be anywhere from 5 to 20 TIMES higher. It doesn’t take a math genius to make the calculations. If you make policy changes that allow you to improve your customer retention rate by just 5%, (everything else being equal) you’d guarantee a 77% growth over the course of 10-years.

Notice the time horizon I mention. Ten years. Too many companies think only in terms of this month or this quarter. But the true secret to real success is establishing a long view for your business. This means that you must create policy that will allow you to retain customers year after year after year. Your company cannot afford to pay 5-20 TIMES more to replace customers who walk away. Keep in mind that you’re not the only game in town – all of your competitors will be happy to welcome the customers you let get away.

I had two experiences this month that serve to accentuate this point. The first experience was with a Fifth/Third Bank with whom I had done business for 22 years. When I turned to them for help with a problem, I was told they could not assist me. Not only did they refuse to help, but they also made the problem worse by providing me with faulty information five times. Three times they told me the problem was resolved when, in fact, it was not. In each case the Fifth/Third Bank employee hid behind “policy” as the reason she could not help me.

At the height of the frustration caused by this customer-unfriendly behavior at Fifth/Third Bank, I stopped into another local business (City Barbeque) and ordered a sandwich. I waited in line to receive the food I had ordered for longer than usual. I ended up having to remind an employee of my order before actually receiving it. It was slightly annoying, but no big deal. A few minutes later the manager of the business found me, apologized for my wait and compensated me generously for my “trouble.”

Ahh, the tale of two policies – it was the worst of times, it was the best of times. Which of these two businesses is likely to retain me as a customer?

There is another critical aspect to these transactions. People have networks of friends, family and colleagues. People talk. In our world of blogs, instant messaging, email and websites the stories of good policy and bad policy can be spread quickly far and wide. As someone with a wide professional network, I have already told hundreds of people the stories above. For City Barbeque, these stories will bolster their business and allow them to acquire new and enthusiastic customers. For Fifth/Third Bank, well, not so much. In fact, I'd recommend that you seek a new bank immediately. If you haven't been abused as a customer there yet, their policies assure that you soon will be.

I strongly encourage you to look at your company policies. Do they treat your existing customers with respect and value? Do you proactively make them aware of the new promotions and pricing you’re offering? Is “the customer is always right” just a platitude, or is it a means to building a sustainable business?

In the midst of this holiday season, be thankful for your existing customers without whom you would not be in business. Grant them the special gift of appreciation in some tangible way before this year ends. I promise that such a policy will yield long-term benefits.

Friday, November 09, 2007

Have I mentioned that the healthcare system is BROKEN!

Those who know me and have the "privilege" to hear me spin my many diatribes about various and sundry topics know that I believe the American healthcare system is SERIOUSLY broken.

Today I'm sitting in a hospital in Iowa with my 87-year old father and I'm being reminded approximately every hour just how broken it really is. Its truly enough to drive me to a "Jesus in the temple" type of rampage.

The bottom line is that there is NO effective communication, and it is very difficult to find a doctor who gives a rat's ass about the patient.

I could write all day about the experiences we've had during this one visit to the hospital, but I'll spare everyone the gory details. And they really are gory, both literally and figuratively.

Why did we ever allow doctors to treat us like slabs of meat? Why did we ever give them license to ignore our phone calls? Who taught them that they can tell us one thing, do another and be irritated when we ask why? When did their schedule become more important than ANYONE else's? Whatever happened to "Do NO Harm?" Why does a day of "care" cost as much as a new house? Why is it that people would now rather die (literally) than spend one more day under the "care" of a so-called "doctor."

Has anyone had even ONE competent, hassle-free experience with any part of the healthcare system in the past decade? Is there really any other reason for the existence of this maze of confusion and disinformation than to separate people from their health and from their money?

May God help us all if we are ever to get sick!

Monday, September 17, 2007

Ahh Simplicity

Sometimes I think I try to make this Christianity thing far too complicated. Jesus was the master of simplicity. He said, "First, love God. Second, love each other."

It's as if Jesus says, "and when you get those done, come back and talk to me." :-)

I don't know about you, but I'm still working on these first two.

Is it really that simple? Maybe I'M the one who's simple, but I've yet to think of a single thing in my life that wouldn't be substantially better if I just did these two things.

Friday, June 01, 2007

Keeping the Main Thing the Main Thing

It is so easy to get busy. Ask most people how they are and you'll hear the word "busy" within the first 5 seconds of their response. It's a national (perhaps global) epidemic.

And when we're busy, we often forget the important things in favor of the urgent things; ultimately a very poor long-term choice. Yet, I continue to make that choice regularly.

This morning a friend forwarded a quote I have seen before, but had forgotten. I share it here to remind myself and in the hope that it may be of encouragement to you.

More and more, the desire grows in me simply to walk around, greet people, enter their homes, sit on their doorsteps, play ball, throw water, and be known as someone who wants to live with them. It is a privilege to have the time to practice this simple ministry of presence. Still, it is not as simple as it seems. My own desire to be useful, to do something significant, or to be part of some impressive project is so strong that soon my time is taken up by meetings, conferences, study groups, and workshops that prevent me from walking the streets. It is difficult not to have plans, not to organize people around an urgent cause, and not to feel that you are working directly for social progress. But I wonder more and more if the first thing shouldn’t be to know people by name, to eat and drink with them, to listen to their stories and tell your own, and to let them know with words, handshakes, and hugs that you do not simply like them, but truly love them. --- Henri Nouwen---


Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Gary's Memorial

I attended the memorial service of my friend Gary last night. I have been to far too many of these things in recent years. Sigh

Though I knew this already, Gary spent the last several years of his life quietly serving others. Of the few hundred people at the memorial, about a dozen or so took the podium to share something specific from Gary's story. The first was a 14 year old boy, whom Gary had mentored at church. Sobbing, this lad shared that when life got tough for him, as it often did, "Gary was the first person I always wanted to talk to."

Gary's life touched so many from so many different walks of life. Having been in prison many years ago, he weekly visited others who are in prison now. Fourteen of those people sent written notes of gratitude to the Memorial.

With the help of Jesus, Gary beat a substance abuse problem (that led to his incarceration) and spent the rest of his life helping others beat addictions. Several of those people were at the service to express their heartfelt appreciation for all of Gary's efforts.

Gary was a business owner, and met with a small band of other business owners (where I met him) every Thursday. There were CEOs who shared their memories of Gary as a man who wanted to reflect Jesus at work.

Gary was involved in his home church (and other churches) and people from all walks of life at these churches shared how Gary had touched their lives.

Gary was a Father, and his two children each took the podium to share what a great dad they had and how much they will miss him. His daughter, through tears and while holding her own 2 year old son, said "I had the greatest dad in the world."

It is clear that Gary lived a quality life. The best definition of success I have ever heard is:

True success is when the people who know you best, love and respect you the most.
One man shared a quote from Gary that shed true light on the perspective from which he lived his life.

We are not Human Beings having a Spiritual experience --
We are Spiritual Beings having a Human experience.

Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
AND
Gary Tewell
I can only hope to have as much love and appreciation expressed when I leave this earth as my friends have had. I love and miss each one of you: Patty, Merlyn and now Gary. You continue to inspire me.

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

A Sudden Reminder

Life is sweet and death is bitter
I have been getting together for breakfast each week with a small group of fellow business owners for the past 7 years. We talk about relationship with Jesus, tell one another stories, laugh and sometimes bear one another's burdens.

We need no reminders about where we will be Thursday morning at 6:30. It is a priority, not because of obligation, but because we like each other and it is a highpoint of our week.

This past Thursday one of our number, Gary, did not appear as he normally does. Though he rarely misses a meeting, we were aware that he had recently returned from Florida and we assumed he was merely trying to catch up with his business.

We were wrong.

On Wednesday Gary had risen early, had a quiet time with God, took his dog out for a jog around the neighborhood and returned to get ready for work. After starting the shower to let it warm up on an unseasonably cold April morning, Gary's wife, Jeanie, heard a loud thud. She called out to him, but there was no answer. She tried the door and found him collapsed, lying in front of it. Gary's teenage son ran to call 911. Jeanie began CPR.

Today, Gary lies in a hospital clinging to life via artificial means. He is unaware of his surroundings as best we can tell. The doctors say that his massive heart attack has deprived his brain of oxygen for too long. There is brain damage.

I have been to visit Gary twice over these past few days. I am profoundly saddened by the sudden losses he, his family and all his friends have experienced. Tears flow easily.

But Gary is a man of faith. God rescued him from a prison cell several years back and set his life in a new direction. I believe God can rescue him again now. But if God choses not to rescue, Gary will join Jesus in a personal celebration of resurrection during this Easter season.

As the 16th century Puritan, John Hooper, said before he was martyred for his faith:

Eternal life is MORE sweet and Eternal death is MORE bitter

Join me in prayer for Gary, his wife, two children and one grandson; and for all those who love him and whom he loves.

UPDATE 4-15-07 -- Gary went to be with Jesus Thursday evening. The men from our Thursday morning group went to see him that day after or meeting. We are profoundly saddened by this loss, but are confident that all the lives Gary has touched have been changed in some good way, and that change will live on in us and in those we touch.

Thank you for your continued prayers on behalf of Gary's family.

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Deep Thoughts

There have been times when I think we do not desire heaven; but more often I find myself wondering whether, in our heart of hearts, we have ever desired anything else.
C.S. Lewis


Maybe all of our striving for love, acceptance, success -- even when we choose wrong -- is just the heart desperately groping for something lost in Eden and something impossible to recover on this Terra Forma as we know it.

Think about it.


Saturday, December 09, 2006

I am Truly Astounded by this ...

A new study conducted by the Helsinki-based World Institute for Development Economics Research, finds that assets worth 2200 dollars, per adult, placed a household in the top half of the world wealth distribution in the year 2000. To be among the richest 10 percent of adults in the world required 61,000 dollars in assets, and more than 500,000 dollars was needed to belong to the richest 1 percent of people in the WORLD.

The study, which has been described as path breaking and comprehensive, found that the richest 1 percent of the world’s population alone owned 40 percent of global assets in the year 2000, and that the richest 10 percent accounted for 85 percent of the world total wealth.

In contrast, the bottom half of the world adult population owned barely 1 percent of global wealth.

The term ‘wealth’ signified the net worth of assets possessed by an adult. The term is used in its long-established sense of net worth: the value of physical and financial assets less debts.

As the scriptures clearly state, "to whom much is given, much is required." And, in another place, "it is more blessed to give than to receive." In this season of giving, let us be certain to focus on the many people who are in great need.

JESUS, is the reason for the season.

Monday, November 20, 2006

To Give Thanks

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. It remains mostly untouched by the commercial hype that has taken over virtually every other holiday. One might think that Christmas would be the favorite for those who are followers of Jesus -- but the manner in which that holiday is celebrated in the USA smacks more of wretched excess (as my lovely wife would say) than of the sacrificial death of the Savior.

So Thanksgiving is my favorite. At our house, we take time for everyone around the table to share at least one thing for which they are thankful. We ask our guests to think about this aspect in advance of the day at least as much as the meal or the football. Actually BEING thankful on Thanksgiving is, after all, the point.

I hope each of you will begin now thinking of all the people, events and things for which you are thankful. Direct your thankfulness toward the people who have helped to create the objects of your thankfulness. And, ultimately, lift your voice to your creator and let your heart run out in thanksgiving.

Ephesians 5:20 -- "Always giving thanks for ALL things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, to God even the Father."

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

At the Speed of Life

Though I'm far from old, (that's my story and I'm sticking to it) it certainly does seem that every year flashes past faster than the one before it. I'm in awe that we're knocking on November's door already! My mouth drops agape when I think of it.

The years are buzzing by and events too come and go at an alarming rate. Just in the past week, two of my friends have been in serious accidents. By the Grace of God, both will likely recover fully. One was in a highway speed accident (a hit & run driver forcing them off the interstate at high speed). The other fell 20 feet into a ravine during a hike in the woods.

In speaking with each of them following their respective surgeries, both recounted their accidents with grim, tortured recollection. In each case, they kept mentioning how FAST everything happened.

God lives eternally outside of time. Yet he looks into our time and says to us, "You are like grass, you will soon whither. Like green plants you will soon pass away." In another place, the Psalmist says, "My days are like an evening shadow, they quickly fade away."

Here's an exhortation for you. Discover and act upon your Heart's desire. Don't put off following your dreams. If there are things you long to do "some day." Plan to do them as soon as possible. There is no guarantee that you will be granted many days.

Are your relationships with God and others in order? Get them right quickly.

Do you think about changing jobs or careers? Have you thought about starting your own business? Do you long to travel? Retire? Move to the country? Tell someone you love them? Simplify your life? Change your destructive habits?

Whatever good thing your Heart is prompting you to do, I join with one of our time's popular comedians in saying, "Git 'R Done!"